Yep, you're son is a man now. Even if he doesn't receive a yearly W-2. Judaism is that way; we like those precocious young chaps gearing up for adulthood as their 13th birthday approaches. Well, if you are going to make a party, a reception, following or preceding the Shabbos of your child's bar mitzvah, I'm here to help your son, his friends, and your mishpacha and friends, hit the dance floor!